Lies

What stands behind the scenes of the lying performance? Why do we lie and how to tell blunt lie from white one? What are the faces of deception? How to be fluent in a liar’s body language and what are the risks of lying in a relationship?

Blatant lies know no excuses, little white lies are less horrible, but still don’t seem right and often cause a lot of remorse… Fib does differ from all the lie types, according to some opinions it is a separate concept.

Haven’t you ever noticed that your kiddos can be skilful manipulators sometimes? Learn how to be good at reading the motives and ways of your little angels in disguise…

Self deception works wonders? Depends on whether you are able not to get carried away with tricking yourself or not...

 
 
 
 

Why We Lie

Reasons for telling lies are numerous. Some people do it because they need to hide their evil actions and cover them with sugary stories or deceiving trumpery; others' lies are firmly based on more or less noble grounds i.e. they lie because they want to spare their closest people pain or sufferings – the so-called white liars.

Some people lie because they have no other choice. That's not an excuse for them, just a facing-facts procedure. They may be lawbreakers whose lies are stably backed up, fed and bred by their criminal activities, these offenders are well aware of the fact that if they don't lie their cross-examining procedures away skillfully and unmistakably, they will be deprived of the sunny freedom for a very long time, so they see no way back to the truth – simply because there's nothing to get back to.

There are people whose status is defined as 'the players' or 'the pretenders', other variations are possible. Their self is wrapped up in deception, and they spread it high and low on people who surround them irrespective of the level of closeness or intimacy of their interrelations and connections. Skilful lie is their prerogative, and it's often not that easy to see them through due to their relentless sweetness or cuddly charm.

Some people are just very fond of lying. No particular reason for it, they are simply addicted to telling little white lies to people either to boast something or just out of boredom. Usually their deceptive nature is easily revealed, and afterwards people don't spoil them with their trust even regarding some tiny everyday issues.